Conscious Choosing

Our lives are the result of our choices—choices that range from where we live, what we wear and eat, how we spend our time...and with whom.  And, we choose our actions—and our reactions.  We can choose to hold onto fears, resentments, guilts, regrets…and we can choose to let them go. It is all choice.

The result of a choice can be fairly immediate—for example, taking a different route to work might result in our being snarled in traffic that means we are late for an important meeting.  A choice we make can have also longer-term implications such as the effects of poor health choices when we were younger.

Our lives are shaped by our choices:  had we chosen path (a) rather than path (b), our life experience could have been completely different, so different that we might not recognise the 'us' who made that choice.  I have no idea for example who I would be if I hadn't made the life-changing decision to travel from the UK to New Zealand all those years ago!  

And our lives are shaped by our choices at a soul level—when and where to be born and to whom, what we want to experience and learn while we are here….all the aspects of our life purpose.

Before I go any further….please know that NO CHOICE IS RIGHT—AND NO CHOICE IS WRONG.  A choice is simply that—choice.  What matters is how we handle the consequences of that choice—with Love and Forgiveness, which enables us to move on with freedom, grace and joy….or with guilt and regret, blame and shame that keeps us stuck in repeating patterns that stop us from moving on with our lives.

There are times when we can feel we have no choice—which can bring its own set of consequences (particularly feelings of failure and powerlessness).  Sometimes consequences can appear in this lifetime from choices made in another.  If a choice we make—willingly or not—means major fallout for ourselves or for others, we can carry the memory of that trauma forward through lifetimes and replay it in different scenarios until we are ready to release it.

It was for just such situations that I was gifted the Forgive and Release process.  There are many modalities you can choose(!) from to work on a situation such as this.  It is of course your choice—your free will—whether or not you want to clear this….and if you do, how you want to do it. 

Please remember too.…we make the choices we make based on the very best information available to us at the time….when we know more, we can choose differently (and note, I didn't say 'better'!).

Happy Choosing!